By Dan Senor
Sunday, June 01, 2025
For many of us, October 7 was a wake-up call of sorts,
which gave birth to what some have taken to calling “October 8 Jews.” I prefer
not to use that term, as it implies that they suddenly became Jews on October
8.
Nonetheless, there was a crack in Jewish consciousness on
October 8, 2023. Suddenly, many Jews began to think differently about their
Jewish identity, their Jewish community, and their connection to Jewish
peoplehood everywhere—especially in Israel.
Sociologists and Jewish leaders heralded a “surge of interest” in Jewish
life.
People started wearing Jewish stars for the first time.
They went to rallies. They donated hundreds of millions to emergency campaigns
and sent supplies to IDF units. And the new openness to Jewish identity opened
them up to indignation and shock. Over WhatsApp, people forwarded
articles by the score in chat groups. I call them the “Can You Believe!?”
groups, as in: “Can you BELIEVE Christiane Amanpour aired that segment?” Or
“Can you BELIEVE Thomas Friedman trashed Israel again in his column?” In
truth, this wasn’t as much a Jewish awakening as an outpouring of Jewish
adrenaline.
And as with adrenaline, I think we can all feel the
moment fading with the passage of time. It would be dangerous for us to return
to the false sense of security we felt on October 6.
***
Since October 7, I have heard the following two comments
more than any other from American Jews.
First: Jews have played key leadership roles in so
many pillars of society: finance and Hollywood, hospitals, the environment and
civil rights, the arts, symphonies, museums and elite universities. How could
they turn on us?
We hear this all the time. We Jews have collectively
spent so much, even named wings after ourselves at these institutions. But,
historically speaking, none of this has mattered in stemming the tide of
anti-Semitism. No, in fact, our perceived power is deployed against us in these
periods. Jews in the Diaspora have too often been, as Douglas Murray says,
prominent but weak.
Murray’s observation calls to mind The Pity of It All,
Amos Elon’s 2002 chronicle of German Jews from the mid-18th century until
Hitler’s rise in 1933—timely today because it shatters so many of our
comfortable narratives about progress, assimilation, and the supposed safety of
living in an educated society. Elon shows how, over nearly two centuries,
German Jews transformed themselves from marginalized peddlers and cattle
dealers into the intellectual, cultural, and economic backbone of German
society. They didn’t just assimilate—they excelled. A community that never was
more than 1 percent of the German population produced bankers, journalists,
artists, industrialists, and academics whose contributions to the flourishing
of Germany are well documented.
They believed in Germany. They believed in Enlightenment
values. They believed that reason and education would triumph over prejudice.
They were wrong.
What’s so piercing about Elon’s account is that he shows
how the very success of German Jews became weaponized against them. Their
visibility in commerce and banking and in cultural and intellectual life was
recast as evidence of a sinister influence. Their patriotism was questioned as
dual loyalty. German Jews watched their neighbors—people they’d known their
entire lives—turn against them. Many thought that by downplaying their
Jewishness or converting to Christianity, they could secure their place in society.
But anti-Semitism proved remarkably adaptable.
We’ve seen this—Jews contributing to their societies,
only to be turned on—throughout Jewish history. Spain, in the 15th century.
Iraq and the broader Muslim world, the early 20th century. Russia, the 19th and
20th centuries. France, the 19th century. And now, we’re seeing echoes of it in
our own time.
And if indeed this is the historical norm, which I argue
it is—and that philanthropy to certain institutions can backfire, how might we
reorient, reorganize, and reprioritize our commitments? What is the new wing at
the University of Pennsylvania or Harvard really going to achieve for our
community and our legacy in our community?
The second major question I hear is: Why can’t Israel
just tell its story better to the world? If only we could get the facts out,
right?
We want to believe that the way to counter the lie is
with a better story, media tools, and distribution of content. People think: If
we can just hack the algorithm, tweet that viral tweet, our kids won’t have to
view those toxic reels on TikTok attacking Israel.
Now, the algorithm spreading the lie is a problem. But
the bigger problem is the popularity of the lie itself. It’s a lie that has
stood the test of time. An earlier communications innovation spread similar
lies—not on a social media platform but with Guttenberg’s invention of the
printing press in 1440, which led to a spate of books in Europe trafficking in
anti-Semitic blood libels. Did the printing press enable the spread of
anti-Semitic ideas? Yes. As innovations before it and after have as well. The
reality is that today there are 16 million of us and 8 billion people in the
world. I don’t care how good we are, the reel telling a story of a supposed
Zionist genocide will get a ton of engagement.
If we can agree that Israel isn’t going to win the
information war, and we can’t make the anti-Semites less anti-Semitic, and that
simply investing in non-Jewish causes will never be enough to grant us a
get-out-of-the-pogrom-free card, then what are we to do?
I think the answer is shockingly simple: We must lead
Jewish lives. For this is what has sustained Jewish life, and Jewish existence,
in every century.
Who leads a Jewish life? For the past year and a
half, I’ve been on what you might call a college tour, but not the kind parents
take with their high school juniors. I’ve visited Michigan, Brown, Tulane, UT,
Duke, Vanderbilt, Wash U, Florida, and others, usually to connect with Jewish
students navigating a difficult time.
I went to help educate about Israel and the Middle East.
I went to show solidarity. And in conversation after conversation with these
remarkable young people, I noticed that, almost without exception, the students
who were leading Jewish and pro-Israel communities on these campuses shared one
formative experience: They had attended parochial school, or what we call
“Jewish day schools.”
The data here are not complicated: Day school alumni are
more than twice as likely to feel deeply connected to their Jewish identity
compared with their peers. They’re four times as likely to feel a strong
connection to Israel. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks once said: “To defend a country, you
need an army. But to defend an identity, you need a school.”
Day schools strive to be living, breathing Jewish
communities where students absorb Judaism through every sense—where they learn
not just Jewish ideas, but how to think, how to argue respectfully across
differences, how we build community. They learn Hebrew and how to pray, they
learn how to be a mensch. At Jewish day schools, practicing Judaism is
normative. Studying Jewish texts, caring about Israel—it’s all the norm. It’s
not weird. There’s no baggage, no connotations, and no apologizing for it. Day schools
build Jewish confidence and pride.
They develop what I can only describe as Jewish muscle
memory. I’ve seen this in my own family after sending our children to the
Heschel School in Manhattan. What’s been most surprising isn’t just how it’s
shaped our kids, but how it’s transformed our entire family. Their school has
become our Jewish community, too.
Increasingly, day schools offer answers to some of this
age’s most vexing challenges. Jonathan Haidt has pointed to Jewish day schools
as the vanguard of the phone-free schools movement. “One of the best examples
of collective action” he says, “is the way Jewish day schools banded together
to go phone-free and restore play, book-reading, learning, and fun.”
And I’ve witnessed how these schools respond in moments
of crisis. After October 7, there was no equivocation, no confusion about
values. For our kids’ school, displaying hostage posters wasn’t controversial;
it was simply what you do when members of your extended family are suffering.
These schools demonstrated what Jewish resilience looks like in real time.
But here’s what keeps me up at night: Only about 5
percent of non-Orthodox Jewish children in America attend Jewish day schools.
For the Orthodox, Judaism is the center of their lives, as much a part of their
moment-to-moment existences as breathing. For the non-Orthodox, living a Jewish
life is a moment-to-moment choice. And it should be easier to choose.
Take schooling. Two decades ago, Jewish schools were
opening across the country. Over the past decade, schools have been merging,
downsizing, and closing. Day schools matter, and day schools are in crisis. The
question is: What will it take to make them accessible, affordable, and even
competitive with the best independent schools for far more than just 5 percent
of Jewish American students?
I am hopeful here, because interest in Jewish day schools
is actually increasing for the first time in years. The Ades family has almost
single-handedly built Miami’s new Jewish Leadership Academy. The Tikvah Fund
created Emet Academy in New York City. Tamim Academy is opening elementary
schools across the country—in Portland, Austin, Salt Lake City. A Cleveland
foundation committed $90 million to grow five local day schools. Yavneh Academy
in New Jersey has built an innovative program to integrate students with little
to no Jewish background into a dual curriculum (teaching in Hebrew and in
English). Existing Jewish day schools are looking to expand to keep up with new
demand. The beginning of a renaissance in Jewish education is already
happening.
There’s only one environment in America that’s even more
immersive than day schools: the Jewish summer camp. Jewish camps have a
similarly profound impact. One survey showed that 92 percent of parents said it
directly strengthened their child’s Jewish identity. Participation is growing, too, as families
double down on their Jewish identities amid rising anti-Semitism. Last summer,
189,000 kids, teens, and young adults attended Jewish camps—a 5 percent
increase over 2023. Camp is not just a seasonal touchpoint; it’s frequently the
beginning of a lifelong Jewish journey. And yet, despite everything we know
about the value of Jewish camp, it remains dramatically underfunded. Costs are
rising—Jewish overnight camp alone costs $500 million annually—but philanthropic
giving to camps has not kept pace.
Simply put, we can no longer view day schools and Jewish
camps as nice-to-haves. In today’s environment, they’re indispensable.
It’s never too late. Too often I hear from my
adult friends, It’s too late for me. I missed my chance. And so the very
people raising Jewish children, leading our institutions, and writing the
checks that keep our community humming have quietly decided that Jewish
learning—and even real communal involvement—is for someone else. But it’s not.
This is a tale as old as time: Famously, Rebbi Akiva, the Talmudic sage, did
not begin studying Torah until he turned 40.
My friend Dan Loeb—a hedge fund manager and a late Jewish
learner who did not have a bar mitzvah at age 13—took up this mantle after
October 7 when he issued a very simple challenge: Read the weekly Torah portion
each week in memory of the murdered. He set up a website to get people started.
The Simchat Torah Challenge was born. In just a few months, 15,000 people
signed up. Most of them weren’t Orthodox. Many learn on their own. And the
challenge has spawned learning groups and community events nationwide.
I’m reminded of a line in Jonathan Safran Foer’s book Here
I Am. “Jewish Americans,” he wrote, “will go to any length, short of
practicing Judaism, to instill a sense of Jewish identity in their children.”
Foer’s sarcasm reveals a deep truth: We look at the next generation and say, Why
don’t they care? We know that they watch what we do.
Redefine the college experience. We must also help
them choose to live in a way that will make leading a Jewish life easier. And
that takes me to higher education. Jewish students and parents are beginning to
rethink the conventional metrics of excellence in college and beyond. Is where
a school sits in the college rankings still impressive if large groups of
masked students can literally invade the college library in the middle of
finals?
And yet, because we Jews were seeking prestige, we
willfully ignored what many of us had a sense was going on at America’s top
universities. We found prominence—and became weak. But only now do we know how
pervasive and entrenched anti-Semitism has been and that it was spreading and
getting entrenched long before October 7.
As the historian Niall Ferguson explained to me on my
podcast, Call Me Back, “Like all elites in history, our elites are
obsessed with the impossible challenge of passing their achievements on to
their children. And, because we’re not that good as a species at transmitting
intellectual firepower and the work ethic from generation to generation, there
is this race by high-achieving people to get their children to achieve as much
as they did. And this is done through educational credential-seeking.”
This post–October 7 reevaluation is overdue—and it has
created space for universities outside the so-called super-elite to stand out.
Smart institutions have begun to seize the moment.
The chancellors of Vanderbilt and Washington University
recently released guiding principles that push back against the dual erosion of
academic excellence and ideological diversity in higher education—two pillars
that have served American Jews so well over the past half century. Dartmouth
College deserves mention here, too.
We’re also seeing large public universities standing
apart from the groupthink dominating so many elite campuses. Some are
dismantling administrative offices that, under the guise of promoting
inclusion, have become sources of division. Most important, they’re launching
new academic initiatives—and, in some cases, entirely new schools—committed at
the outset to civil discourse and viewpoint diversity.
The Hamilton Center at the University of Florida, for
example, aims to become the world’s premier school for the study of Western
civilization, with a heavy focus on the study of Jewish texts and history as
core to the evolution and enduring strength of Western civilization. The new
school of Civic Leadership at the University of Texas at Austin is built on the
same principles. There’s the audacious effort under way in Austin to build an
entirely new university from the ground up: the University of Austin. UATX
admitted its first undergraduate class last spring—with average test scores in
the 95th percentile. There is a growing hunger for alternatives. Even radical
ones.
In each case, the leadership of these institutions is
also making serious efforts to reintroduce the study of Jewish thought. They
are building large kosher kitchens. They’re building Jewish life on campus in
partnership with Tikvah. They’re working on study-abroad programs in Israel and
forming partnerships with Israeli universities—while students on other campuses
debate the fastest way to divorce their institutions from the only Jewish
state.
The gap year. And regardless of where you go to
college, I would add, especially if you have not gone to a Jewish day school or
a Jewish camp, there is a very good way to prep: Spend a gap year in Israel.
In Israel, such gap years are already well established.
They’re called mechinot. Thousands of young Israelis choose to delay
enlisting in the army for a year of learning, training, and volunteering.
Eighteen-year-old Israeli and American kids are preparing for very different
life experiences. What if more American Jews spent a year learning and living
among their peers in Israel?
There are already programs—Young Judaea Year Course,
Kivunim, Bar Ilan, Masa—that offer this kind of experience. Many even provide
college credit. But we need more. And we need to reframe the way we talk about
this year, not as a delay—not as “putting off” college—but as a foundation for
living a Jewish life.
And here again, Jewish living and giving are not keeping
up. I know too many American Jews graduating high school who say they’d love to
do a gap year in Israel, but they can’t afford to go into more student debt.
For every Jewish kid heading to a U.S. campus who wants to first spend a year
in Israel, and wants to develop that Jewish and pro-Israel muscle memory, our
community should do whatever necessary to make it happen.
So: Day schools. Camps. Adult Jewish education.
Innovations in higher education. Gap years. Scaling these immersive Jewish
experiences would amount to nothing short of a Jewish renaissance. We should
experiment with the most ambitious and creative efforts to bolster identity and
fight assimilation.
But this renaissance will not come cheap. These programs
are expensive. Just who is going to pay for it?
The givers. The Jerusalem Talmud expresses
amazement at the generosity of the Jewish people. “One cannot understand the
nature of this people,” one clever text reads. “If appealed to for the Golden
Calf, they give. If appealed to for the Sanctuary, they give.”
Jewish philanthropists are extraordinarily generous. In
just the past year, one generous donor committed $1 billion to Einstein Medical
School to make it tuition-free. Another made a similar gift to Johns Hopkins
for the same purpose. Jews are disproportionately represented on every list of
prominent philanthropists. The Talmud was right: This is a giving people. When
asked, we say yes.
But here’s the uncomfortable truth: The overwhelming
majority of Jewish philanthropic dollars go to non-Jewish causes. I saw one
statistic: Of 33 Jewish individuals on a Forbes 400 list with publicly reported
charitable giving, no more than 11 percent of their giving went to Jewish
causes.
I am not suggesting that Jewish generosity to the broader
civic square come to an end. But I am arguing that it is time for a
recalibration in favor of our community’s needs. We need to strengthen the core
specifically so we can play the role we are meant to play beyond it.
If the goal we seek is the safety, growth, and
flourishing of the Jewish people, then we need to spend like we really mean it.
We need to invest—in amounts big, and small, and really, really big—so that we
can look back on this moment in 10, 50, 100 years and say: American Jewish life
was not the same after that. It was better.
Two philanthropists, Mindy and Jon Gray, made a big bet
last week: $125 million to Tel Aviv University. This kind of giving is
inspiring and will make an enormous difference in Israel. And now I wonder: Who
will be next, and here in America? Who will make that bet on American Jewish
life?
‘The time is now.’ In January 1948, Golda Meir
delivered a famous speech to a group of Jewish leaders in Chicago a mere four
months before the establishment of Israel. Her message was clear: The future of
the Jewish state hung in the balance. The Jews in Palestine needed every cent
American Jews could spare.
“I beg of you—don’t be too late,” she said. “Don’t be
bitterly sorry three months from now for what you failed to do today. The time
is now.” She intended to raise $25 million; by the end she had raised $50
million. (In today’s dollars, that would be nearly $700 million.)
The tables have turned. Israel is going to be fine, in
part because of Israeli strength and resilience, backed up by the Diaspora’s
continued commitment. But I do think the future of American Jewish life hangs
in the balance. And I don’t want any of us—whatever our resources—to regret not
doing more.
We really do have the tools to rebuild American Jewish
life. The question is: Do we have the sense of purpose—the why—to match?
Hersh Goldberg-Polin spent just three days with a fellow
hostage named Eli Sharabi in the tunnels of Gaza. In that time, Hersh taught
Eli a lesson that would change his life. He quoted the psychologist and
Holocaust survivor Victor Frankl: He who has a “why” will find the “how.”
Israelis have a why. Many who may have forgotten it were
reminded of it on October 7, when everything changed. Since then, Israelis have
seen the why come roaring back.
Agam Berger, held in captivity for 450 days, had a why.
“I learned,” she said after her release, “as my forebears did, that
imprisonment can’t overwhelm the inner spiritual life. Our faith and covenant
with God—the story we remember on Passover—is more powerful than any cruel
captor. Even as Hamas tried to coerce me into converting to Islam—at times,
forcing a hijab on my head—they couldn’t take my soul.” Her friend, Liri Albag,
fashioned a Haggadah out of whatever materials she could find in captivity, and
they marked the Passover Seder together, yearning for redemption.
Aner Shapira had a why. In a bomb shelter beside Hersh on
October 7, he faced a death squad and chose to act. He hurled seven live
grenades back at the terrorists before the eighth took his life. He died saving
his friends—and strangers—because he knew he served a people greater than
himself.
Ben Zussman had a why. A reserve officer in the IDF, he
wrote a letter before heading to the front lines in case the worst came to
pass. And when his parents opened the letter after his death, they found these
words: “If you’re reading this, something must have happened to me. As you know
about me, there’s probably no one happier than me right now. I’m happy and
grateful for the privilege to protect our beautiful land and the people of
Israel.”
We—the Jewish people—should look to Israel not simply for
its defense innovation or health care advances. We should look to Israelis for
their clarity, their purpose, their deep sense of identity. Hersh, Eli, Agam,
Aner, Ben—very different people, very different lives. But each of them met
this moment with courage. With faith. With an unshakable sense of why.
The deepest question. What is our why? Why are we
here? Are we truly owning the story we’re living in? These are not theoretical
questions. They are practical and will determine the future of our families and
our communities.
The state of World Jewry depends on how we answer.
If we answer in the way I’m suggesting, by resolving to
live Jewish lives, and making sure our children do as well, we will begin to
find that answer. The road in the near term will not be smooth. We know enough
to know that we are witnessing another story, another chapter in Jewish
history. There will be libraries invaded by campus mobs, there will be Nazi
graffiti scrawled on the walls of subway cars, there will be another podcaster
spreading libels about the Jewish people. Of this, we can be sure. I am confident,
however, that in the long term, if we strengthen our Jewish identity, our
people will not be prominent but weak. They will be Jewish and strong.
Many young American parents over the past 18 months have
chosen to pay tribute to some of the Israeli heroes we lost in this war.
Everywhere you look, it seems, you might meet a young baby Hersh—named for
Hersh Goldberg-Polin—or baby Carmel, for Carmel Gat, or Ori, for Ori Danino, or
Maya, for Maya Goren.
These young American Jews will carry their names into the
future. I imagine, 18 years from now, young Hershs and Carmels and Oris and
Mayas walking onto the quad together, on one of a thousand American campuses.
And my prayer is that as much as they carry their names, they will also carry
their courage, their essence. That they will know who they are, where they come
from—and where they’re going.
No comments:
Post a Comment