Friday, September 11, 2026

What September 11 Took From Us

By Mike Nelson

Friday, September 11, 2026

 

On September 9, 2001, Americans across the country gathered in front of their TVs for the first episode of a new HBO miniseries—a series that remains one of their most enduring successes. After the distinctive HBO logo and static played, but before the opening theme music that would later become iconic, audiences watched a series of short interviews with old men. These men had lived full lives as fathers and grandfathers and had succeeded in a wide range of careers. But despite these long personal histories, separate from one another, they were speaking about a relatively brief period that would prove to be the defining event of their lives. They were the paratroopers of Easy Company 506th Parachute Infantry Regiment, and between June 6, 1944 and May 8, 1945, they fought and defeated Nazi evil. We know them, of course, as the Band of Brothers.

 

Two days after this premier episode, a different group of paratroopers was culminating a brigade field training exercise on Fort Bragg when, roughly 500 miles away, the event that would set in motion the defining period of their history was happening—and changing the course of the world. September 11 was not only a shocking tragedy and an inhuman mass murder, it marked a delineation in history, a turning point from the path the world had been on, and a denial of what might have been. Like the assassination of Archduke Ferdinand or the fall of the Iron Curtain, there was the world before these events, and then there was the very different world afterward.

 

I was one of the paratroopers of 2nd Brigade, 82nd Airborne Division who had been in the field that day. We are not alone in saying September 11 changed our lives forever and set in motion a course of events that would define who we were for the rest of our days–just as their service in World War II defined who the men of Easy Company had been. We thought we would be off to war, almost immediately, to respond to this attack on the United States—in fact, we would have to wait 18 months until the invasion of Iraq to get “our war.” For many of us, September 11 began a new constant in our lives, of repeated deployments over the course of two decades, to the point where the deployments became “real life” more than the time at home between them, a phenomenon written about by Special Forces Team Sgt. Josh Thompson.

 

Some deployed once but had their lives altered by what they saw and did. Some, like my fellow Dispatch contributor David French, or Sen. Tom Cotton, or Pete Hegseth, decided to leave lucrative, stable, and safe careers behind to answer their country’s call, when nothing but patriotism compelled them to do so. Many did not return and, unlike the men speaking at the beginning of Band of Brothers, would not have long lives to reflect on their service. Many of us who served over the course of two decades remember exactly where we were on September 11; others were not born yet or were too young to remember, including Lance Cpl. David L. Espinoza, Lance Cpl. Jared M. Schmitz, Lance Cpl. Rylee J. McCollum, Lance Cpl. Dylan R. Merola, and Lance Cpl. Kareem M. Nikoui. Despite all being 8 months old or younger on September 11, they were five of the final 13 American casualties of the war that September 11 started. They were killed in 2021 at Abbey Gate during the evacuation from Afghanistan. These Marines had literally lived their entire lives in the shadow of the war on terror, and, ultimately, their life stories and that of America’s involvement in Afghanistan tragically ended together. Who knows what they might have done with their lives had September 11 never happened—a question that applies equally to all service members lost in the war and the thousands who died 25 years ago during the attacks.

 

The attacks affected thousands of families in New York, Virginia, and across the country. There were empty chairs at Thanksgiving dinner, representing those who had merely gone to work or boarded a plane as though it were any other day. Graduation parties and wedding ceremonies would forever feel incomplete because a loved one was missing. That scale of the loss of that day is hard to fathom. Any tragedy that claimed 343 firefighters would have been previously unimaginable, but that represented just about 11 percent of the human toll that day. September 11 shook us all to our core. But for the families of those lost to hatred and evil that day, it was not just a day of horror, fear, and anger but also incalculable grief, in some cases without confirmation of what had happened to their loved ones for days.

 

I had grown up as an Army brat, attended a military college, and then served in the Army. The war after September 11 had a bit of a siloing effect for me. Most of my college friends had gone into the military. All the friends I made after college were those I met in the military. The war was a constant and common factor in our lives, complete with too-frequent reports that a friend one hadn’t seen in years had been killed in combat. In 2011, when I was on my fifth deployment to Iraq or Afghanistan, my younger brother was deployed to Iraq at the same time. I found myself anxious and worried because, despite my experience, my brother was in a situation I could not control, affect, or even have day-to-day visibility on. It was my first time experiencing the stress of the unknown borne by so many families in the United States.

 

The sudden departure from the post-Cold War new world order and relative stability of the ’90s has been attributed to a “failure of imagination,” that American intelligence and law enforcement services did not anticipate the means by which determined, malign actors could exploit the seams in our security network and use everyday civilian items (boxcutters and airplane tickets) to inflict the worst attack against the American homeland since Pearl Harbor—this one primarily against our civilian population. While the nature of the attack was something with which we were not prepared to contend, the larger issue was that we, as a country, did not take the threats against us seriously. Al-Qaeda, for its part, had not been hiding its desire to attack Americans. Al-Qaeda terrorists bombed the World Trade Center in 1993, killed American service members in Saudi Arabia in 1995, bombed two American embassies in 1998, and attacked the USS Cole in 2000. They went so far as to explicitly tell us their intentions with a declaration of war in 1996 and a fatwa against the United States in 1998. Despite all of this, we continued to believe terror would remain an unfortunate but manageable threat. We did not properly understand how destructive it could be, nor how much the subsequent effort to defeat it would set a new course for America around the world.

 

While we may wonder to ourselves what the world and our country would be like had it not been for September 11, a less theoretical and more practical exercise would be to ask ourselves what threats today represent the modern equivalent of al-Qaeda’s growing danger that was unleashed that day. What enemies and adversaries, while signaling their nefarious intent, are mistakenly believed to be manageable nuisances instead of actors bent on carrying out the next world-altering action? The number of adversaries is myriad, their intent and desire to disrupt the world order is growing, and the potential to invite attacks in the face of American insouciance and impulsiveness is real. If we are not vigilant now, we may find ourselves asking similar questions about the human lives lost on some other 25th anniversary in the future.

 

I have now lived more of my life in a post-9/11 world than the one in which I grew up. But even without the passage of time, the attacks and the subsequent wars that resulted would still be what defined so much of my life and the lives of those close to me, just as it did to those men speaking in interviews on HBO. And, as much as I love and will constantly rewatch this series about the heroes who came before, one thing gives me pause. After the interviews, the opening credits play to the familiar notes of the series theme song. I cannot stand that iconic music. You see, that’s what would play at the beginning of every memorial ceremony held at 5th Special Forces Group for those killed in the wars that defined my generation. It has come to represent those lives that, without the attacks of September 11, would not have been lost.

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