By Mike Nelson
Sunday, June 14, 2026
Graham Platner’s victory this week in Maine’s Democratic
Senate primary would have been a stunning achievement for a political newcomer
under any circumstances. What makes it truly remarkable is that Platner pulled
this off despite a decades-long trail of questionable behavior: a Nazi
tattoo; contemptible written statements about sexual-abuse victims, Black
people, and women; admissions of past substance abuse
and marital
infidelity; allegations
of demeaning, disturbing, and physically threatening behavior toward former
girlfriends. (Platner has denied any physical intimidation or violence.)
Platner and his surrogates have rolled out a catch-all
excuse, meant not only to clarify how he could have made so many bad decisions,
but also to shame people who criticize him: Platner, a Marine Corps veteran,
was dealing with the heavy emotional burden and mental toll of the wars this
nation sent him to fight. It’s not his fault. And he’s a better person now.
But that argument—and I say this as a veteran of the
Afghanistan and Iraq wars—is nonsense, a convenient answer intended to divert
the conversation from legitimate questions about Platner’s many flaws. It plays
on Americans’ sympathy for those who have fought in war and overplays the
distinction between veterans and civilians. Whether this justification is used
cynically or sincerely—or ignorantly—it is insulting to veterans. Many of them
suffer from their time in combat but don’t engage in the kind of behavior that
Platner has. And many of them—despite, or because of, their wartime
experience—are among our nation’s most accomplished, ethical, hardworking, and
patriotic citizens and leaders.
Let me put this as plainly as possible: I know quite
literally hundreds of combat veterans, and the soldiers I fought with, to my
knowledge, all somehow managed to avoid getting Nazi tattoos. It doesn’t take
much effort to avoid being inked with an SS symbol.
Platner himself has said
repeatedly that much of his bad behavior stemmed from his war experience. “I’ve
been very up front since the beginning of this campaign that that was a pretty
dark period of my life after I came back from my combat service,” he recently told MS NOW’s Chris Hayes,
admitting to “not being a good boyfriend” and “self-medicating with alcohol.”
He has spoken about
having PTSD and, in an interview with The
New York Times, described an incident in which his friend was badly
injured when their vehicle got hit by an IED in Iraq. The morning after his
primary win, Platner said that he had only started to feel like himself again
in 2021, and added,
“I wake up every single morning just trying to be a little bit better and a
little bit kinder than the way I was before.”
His surrogates echo this defense, which plays into the
dangerous and condescending stereotype of American veterans as broken people.
Speaking at a Platner rally a few days before the primary, Representative Ro
Khanna acknowledged that some of Platner’s past relationships were “toxic and
volatile,” before pivoting to: “But we need to have an honest conversation in
this country. We broke thousands of young men by sending them into dumb wars.”
Senator Chris Van Hollen has defended Platner, saying, “Let’s take a couple
issues, including the comments he’s made in the past. I mean, he’s been very
clear that he went into combat on behalf of the United States. He went through
a really rough period, PTSD-type period.”
According to this logic, Platner is not responsible for
his own actions. The burdens he carries excuse things he has done over the
course of two decades—in the military, after returning to civilian life, and
apparently up
until he decided to run for Senate.
Some of these defenses are well-intentioned. They suggest
an admiration for the sacrifices that veterans have made. Perhaps some
civilians feel unqualified to judge people who have served and who may well
still experience the effects of their time overseas. The chasm between those
who have been in combat and those who’ve only watched news of it is massive and
growing: A smaller percentage of Americans served in the global War on Terror
than in any other major war over the past century. This can lead some civilians
to be overly deferential to veterans, who are, after all, human.
But showing respect to the point of refusing to judge
someone’s questionable actions is a version of what George W. Bush called “the
soft bigotry of low expectations.” Some Americans seem to view Afghanistan and
Iraq veterans almost as an alien species, whose experiences cannot be
understood and who therefore have a separate set of expectations. This attitude
reduces an incredibly diverse group of individuals to the “broken veteran”
cliché.
In some cases, Platner supporters who are veterans
themselves have tried to lend credibility to this explanation. In a Substack essay published
shortly before the primary, Daniel Barkhuff, the founder of Veterans for
Responsible Leadership, a super PAC that endorsed Platner, wrote: “He said dumb
things. He did dumb things.” Platner, Barkhuff added, seems to have “the sort
of impulsive aggressiveness that is curated and encouraged in ground combat
units where 99% of your problems can be solved by getting more violent and
faster than the other guy. None of that is hidden, and none of it needs to be
excused.” Barkhuff explained that he himself has used offensive language in
online arguments. But that analogy doesn’t amount to much of a defense of
Platner, whose troubling history goes well beyond a few bad words.
Platner and his supporters frequently talk about his
personal story as one of redemption and recovery after his time at war. “Graham
clearly made a mistake. What I appreciated about him is he owned that mistake.
He took responsibility for it,” Representative Seth Moulton said in reference
to Platner’s tattoo. But has he owned his mistakes? Although Platner claims
that he didn’t know the significance of his Nazi Totenkopf tattoo,
others have disputed this. His former campaign political director said that
Platner “knows damn well what it means.” A former romantic partner, Lyndsey
Fifield, told The New York Times that Platner had referred to the tattoo
years ago as “my Totenkopf.” When Hayes asked Platner about a
text in which Fifield referred to the “Nazi tattoo on his chest” before the
tattoo became public, Platner responded, “Well, she certainly didn’t send that
text to me.” His denial proved even more absurd when an unnamed second former
romantic partner told
The New York Post that she’d had a conversation with Platner about
the tattoo and its Nazi meaning in 2021, and shared screenshots demonstrating
her awareness of the tattoo prior to the public disclosure.
In reaction to a New York Times story in which
Fifield alleged that Platner had grabbed her, pushed her, and twisted her arm,
Platner denied
not only that behavior but also that he and Fifield had ever dated, despite
contemporaneous texts and social-media posts suggesting that they had been in a
relationship. Platner’s campaign has also attacked Fifield, who has been active
in conservative circles, as a political operative, though the Times found
no evidence that Fifield was acting on Collins’s behalf. Part of redemption is
accounting for one’s faults, and targeting the people who bear witness to those
faults is not accountability—it’s defensiveness. When Morning Joe’s Mika
Brzezinski recently asked Platner whether additional controversies might come
out, Platner said, “There’s nothing out there that’s actually concerning.
People will make everything seem very concerning.”
I have seen veterans deal with the very real stresses of
America’s long wars—physical wounds as well as psychological ones that linger
after witnessing death and carnage, or coming close to it oneself. The
separation from home, family, and social networks to deploy to high-stress and
high-risk environments, repeated cyclically over the course of decades, took a
toll on every veteran of the War-on-Terror generation—whether they deployed
once or a dozen times, whether they were directly in harm’s way or far from the
explosions. Many veterans have sunk into substance abuse or engaged in
questionable personal behavior, and I can understand why. Some no doubt have
felt the need to “cut loose,” and we shouldn’t be surprised that the kinds of
people who sign up to exit an aircraft mid-flight might also have a high risk
tolerance in their personal lives.
But even if Platner’s pattern of behavior isn’t unique,
that doesn’t mean it’s representative of the experiences or choices of the
great majority of people who have served. And if all veterans who have suffered
or stumbled deserve help and treatment, that doesn’t mean their hardship is a
blanket excuse for immoral behavior. Everyone is responsible for the choices
they make. That’s a lesson we learn in the military.
Anyone who claims that this kind of baggage is the cost
of getting “regular” people—and specifically veterans—to run for office doesn’t
realize how smug and out of touch that claim is. This argument implies that
veterans are all a bunch of drunks with a history of contemptible beliefs and
actions. We can’t claim to pay tribute to veterans while holding them to such
low standards. This logic also ignores the many veterans who have entered
public life without such questionable pasts.
Veterans are a part of American society, and many will
continue to run for public office. But their status as veterans, though an
important component of their story, should never excuse decisions they have
made. Nor should veteran candidates use their service as automatic proof of
their worthiness for office. If a candidate wishes to make his wartime service
an essential part of why voters should select him, then he should highlight the
traits he wishes to bring to the office, not dismiss the traits he wishes them
to ignore.