By Helen Andrews
Thursday, October 16, 2025
In 2019, I read an article
about Larry Summers and Harvard that changed the way I look at the world. The
author, writing under the pseudonym “J. Stone,” argued that the day Larry
Summers resigned as president of Harvard University marked a turning point in
our culture. The entire “woke” era could be extrapolated from that moment, from
the details of how Summers was cancelled and, most of all, who did the
cancelling: women.
The basic facts of the Summers case were familiar to me.
On January 14, 2005, at a conference on “Diversifying the Science and
Engineering Workforce,” Larry Summers gave a talk that was supposed to be off
the record. In it, he said that female underrepresentation in hard sciences was
partly due to “different availability of aptitude at the high end” as well as
taste differences between men and women “not attributable to socialization.”
Some female professors in attendance were offended and sent his remarks to a
reporter, in defiance of the off-the-record rule. The ensuing scandal led to a
no-confidence vote by the Harvard faculty and, eventually, Summers’s
resignation.
The essay argued that it wasn’t just that women had
cancelled the president of Harvard; it was that they’d cancelled him in a very
feminine way. They made emotional appeals rather than logical arguments. “When
he started talking about innate differences in aptitude between men and women,
I just couldn’t breathe because this kind of bias makes me physically ill,”
said Nancy Hopkins, a biologist at MIT. Summers made a public statement
clarifying his remarks, and then another, and then a third, with the apology
more insistent each time. Experts chimed in to declare that everything Summers
had said about sex differences was within the scientific mainstream. These
rational appeals had no effect on the mob hysteria.
This cancellation was feminine, the essay argued, because
all cancellations are feminine. Cancel culture is simply what women do whenever
there are enough of them in a given organization or field. That is the Great
Feminization thesis, which the same author later elaborated upon at
book length: Everything you think of as “wokeness” is simply an
epiphenomenon of demographic feminization.
The explanatory power of this simple thesis was
incredible. It really did unlock the secrets of the era we are living in.
Wokeness is not a new ideology, an outgrowth of Marxism, or a result of
post-Obama disillusionment. It is simply feminine patterns of behavior applied
to institutions where women were few in number until recently. How did I not
see it before?
Possibly because, like most people, I think of
feminization as something that happened in the past before I was born. When we
think about women in the legal profession, for example, we think of the first
woman to attend law school (1869), the first woman to argue a case before the
Supreme Court (1880), or the first female Supreme Court Justice (1981).
A much more important tipping point is when law schools
became majority female, which occurred in 2016, or when law firm associates
became majority female, which occurred in 2023. When Sandra Day O’Connor was
appointed to the high court, only 5 percent of judges were female. Today women
are 33 percent of the judges in America and 63 percent of the judges appointed
by President Joe Biden.
The same trajectory can be seen in many professions: a
pioneering generation of women in the 1960s and ’70s; increasing female
representation through the 1980s and ’90s; and gender parity finally arriving,
at least in the younger cohorts, in the 2010s or 2020s. In 1974, only 10
percent of New York Times reporters were female. The New York Times
staff became majority female in 2018 and today the female share is 55 percent.
Medical schools became majority female in 2019. Women
became a majority of the college-educated workforce nationwide in 2019. Women
became a majority of college instructors in 2023. Women are not yet a majority
of the managers in America but they might be soon, as they are now 46 percent.
So the timing fits. Wokeness arose around the same time that many important
institutions tipped demographically from majority male to majority female.
The substance fits, too. Everything you think of as
wokeness involves prioritizing the feminine over the masculine: empathy over
rationality, safety over risk, cohesion over competition. Other writers who
have proposed their own versions of the Great Feminization thesis, such as Noah
Carl or Bo
Winegard and Cory Clark, who looked at feminization’s effects on academia,
offer survey data showing sex differences in political values. One survey, for
example, found that 71 percent of men said protecting free speech was more
important than preserving a cohesive society, and 59 percent of women said the
opposite.
The most relevant differences are not about individuals
but about groups. In my experience, individuals are unique and you come across
outliers who defy stereotypes every day, but groups of men and women
display consistent differences. Which makes sense, if you think about it
statistically. A random woman might be taller than a random man, but a group of
ten random women is very unlikely to have an average height greater than that
of a group of ten men. The larger the group of people, the more likely it is to
conform to statistical averages.
Female group dynamics favor consensus and cooperation.
Men order each other around, but women can only suggest and persuade. Any
criticism or negative sentiment, if it absolutely must be expressed, needs to
be buried in layers of compliments. The outcome of a discussion is less
important than the fact that a discussion was held and everyone participated in
it. The most important sex difference in group dynamics is attitude to
conflict. In short, men wage conflict openly while women covertly undermine or
ostracize their enemies.
Bari Weiss, in her letter of resignation from The New
York Times, described how colleagues referred to her in internal Slack
messages as a racist, a Nazi, and a bigot and—this is the most feminine
part—“colleagues perceived to be friendly with me were badgered by coworkers.”
Weiss once asked a colleague at the Times opinion desk to get coffee
with her. This journalist, a biracial woman who wrote frequently about race,
refused to meet. This was a failure to meet the standards of basic
professionalism, obviously. It was also very feminine.
Men tend to be better at compartmentalizing than women,
and wokeness was in many ways a society-wide failure to compartmentalize.
Traditionally, an individual doctor might have opinions on the political issues
of the day but he would regard it as his professional duty to keep those
opinions out of the examination room. Now that medicine has become more
feminized, doctors wear pins and lanyards expressing views on controversial
issues from gay rights to Gaza. They even bring the credibility of their profession
to bear on political fads, as when doctors said Black Lives Matter protests
could continue in violation of Covid lockdowns because racism was a public
health emergency.
One book that helped me put the pieces together was Warriors
and Worriers: The Survival of the Sexes by psychology professor Joyce
Benenson. She theorizes that men developed group dynamics optimized for war,
while women developed group dynamics optimized for protecting their offspring.
These habits, formed in the mists of prehistory, explain why experimenters in a
modern psychology lab, in a study that Benenson cites, observed that a group of
men given a task will “jockey for talking time, disagree loudly,” and then
“cheerfully relay a solution to the experimenter.” A group of women given the
same task will “politely inquire about one another’s personal backgrounds and
relationships … accompanied by much eye contact, smiling, and turn-taking,” and
pay “little attention to the task that the experimenter presented.”
The point of war is to settle disputes between two
tribes, but it works only if peace is restored after the dispute is settled.
Men therefore developed methods for reconciling with opponents and learning to
live in peace with people they were fighting yesterday. Females, even in
primate species, are slower to reconcile than males. That is because women’s
conflicts were traditionally within the tribe over scarce resources, to be
resolved not by open conflict but by covert competition with rivals, with no
clear terminus.
All of these observations matched my observations of
wokeness, but soon the happy thrill of discovering a new theory eventually gave
way to a sinking feeling. If wokeness really is the result of the Great
Feminization, then the eruption of insanity in 2020 was just a small taste of
what the future holds. Imagine what will happen as the remaining men age out of
these society-shaping professions and the younger, more feminized generations
take full control.
***
The threat posed by wokeness can be large or small
depending on the industry. It’s sad that English departments are all feminized
now, but most people’s daily lives are unaffected by it. Other fields matter
more. You might not be a journalist, but you live in a country where what gets
written in The New York Times determines what is publicly accepted as
the truth. If the Times becomes a place where in-group consensus can
suppress unpopular facts (more so than it already does), that affects every
citizen.
The field that frightens me most is the law. All of us
depend on a functioning legal system, and, to be blunt, the rule of law will
not survive the legal profession becoming majority female. The rule of law is
not just about writing rules down. It means following them even when they yield
an outcome that tugs at your heartstrings or runs contrary to your gut sense of
which party is more sympathetic.
A feminized legal system might resemble the Title IX
courts for sexual assault on college campuses established in 2011 under
President Obama. These proceedings were governed by written rules and so
technically could be said to operate under the rule of law. But they lacked
many of the safeguards that our legal system holds sacred, such as the right to
confront your accuser, the right to know what crime you are accused of, and the
fundamental concept that guilt should depend on objective circumstances knowable
by both parties, not in how one party feels about an act in retrospect. These
protections were abolished because the people who made these rules sympathized
with the accusers, who were mostly women, and not with the accused, who were
mostly men.
These two approaches to the law clashed vividly in the
Brett Kavanaugh confirmation hearings. The masculine position was that, if
Christine Blasey Ford can’t provide any concrete evidence that she and
Kavanaugh were ever in the same room together, her accusations of rape cannot
be allowed to ruin his life. The feminine position was that her self-evident
emotional response was itself a kind of credibility that the Senate committee
must respect.
If the legal profession becomes majority female, I expect
to see the ethos of Title IX tribunals and the Kavanaugh hearings spread.
Judges will bend the rules for favored groups and enforce them rigorously on
disfavored groups, as already occurs to a worrying extent. It was possible to
believe back in 1970 that introducing women into the legal profession in large
numbers would have only a minor effect. That belief is no longer sustainable.
The changes will be massive.
Oddly enough, both sides of the political spectrum agree
on what those changes will be. The only disagreement is over whether they will
be a good thing or a bad thing. Dahlia Lithwick opens her book Lady Justice:
Women, the Law, and the Battle to Save America with a scene from the
Supreme Court in 2016 during oral arguments over a Texas abortion law. The
three female justices, Ginsburg, Sotomayor, and Kagan, “ignored the formal time
limits, talking exuberantly over their male colleagues.” Lithwick celebrated this
as “an explosion of bottled-up judicial girl power” that “afforded America a
glimpse of what genuine gender parity or near parity might have meant for
future women in powerful American legal institutions.”
Lithwick lauds women for their irreverent attitude to the
law’s formalities, which, after all, originated in an era of oppression and
white supremacy. “The American legal system was fundamentally a machine built
to privilege propertied white men,” Lithwick writes. “But it’s the only thing
going, and you work with what you have.” Those who view the law as a
patriarchal relic can be expected to treat it instrumentally. If that ethos
comes to prevail throughout our legal system, then the trappings will look the
same, but a revolution will have occurred.
***
The Great Feminization is truly unprecedented. Other
civilizations have given women the vote, granted them property rights, or let
them inherit the thrones of empires. No civilization in human history has ever
experimented with letting women control so many vital institutions of our
society, from political parties to universities to our largest businesses. Even
where women do not hold the top spots, women set the tone in these
organizations, such that a male CEO must operate within the limits set by his
human resources VP. We assume that these institutions will continue to function
under these completely novel circumstances. But what are our grounds for that
assumption?
The problem is not that women are less talented than men
or even that female modes of interaction are inferior in any objective sense.
The problem is that female modes of interaction are not well suited to
accomplishing the goals of many major institutions. You can have an academia
that is majority female, but it will be (as majority-female departments in
today’s universities already are) oriented toward other goals than open debate
and the unfettered pursuit of truth. And if your academia doesn’t pursue truth,
what good is it? If your journalists aren’t prickly individualists who don’t
mind alienating people, what good are they? If a business loses its
swashbuckling spirit and becomes a feminized, inward-focused bureaucracy, will
it not stagnate?
If the Great Feminization poses a threat to civilization,
the question becomes whether there is anything we can do about it. The answer
depends on why you think it occurred in the first place. There are many people
who think the Great Feminization is a naturally occurring phenomenon. Women
were finally given a chance to compete with men, and it turned out they were
just better. That is why there are so many women in our newsrooms, running our
political parties, and managing our corporations.
Ross Douthat described this line of thinking in an interview
this year with Jonathan Keeperman, a.k.a. “L0m3z,” a right-wing publisher who
helped popularize
the term “the longhouse” as a metaphor for feminization. “Men are complaining
that women are oppressing them. Isn’t the longhouse just a long, male whine
about a failure to adequately compete?” Douthat asked. “Maybe you should suck
it up and actually compete on the ground that we have in 21st-century America?”
That is what feminists think happened, but they are
wrong. Feminization is not an organic result of women outcompeting men. It is
an artificial result of social engineering, and if we take our thumb off the
scale it will collapse within a generation.
The most obvious thumb on the scale is
anti-discrimination law. It is illegal to employ too few women at your company.
If women are underrepresented, especially in your higher management, that is a
lawsuit waiting to happen. As a result, employers give women jobs and
promotions they would not otherwise have gotten simply in order to keep their
numbers up.
It is rational for them to do this, because the
consequences for failing to do so can be dire. Texaco, Goldman Sachs, Novartis,
and Coca-Cola are among the companies that have paid nine-figure settlements in
response to lawsuits alleging bias against women in hiring and promotions. No
manager wants to be the person who cost his company $200 million in a gender
discrimination lawsuit.
Anti-discrimination law requires that every workplace be
feminized. A landmark case in 1991 found that pinup posters on the walls of a
shipyard constituted a hostile environment for women, and that principle has
grown to encompass many forms of masculine conduct. Dozens of Silicon Valley
companies have been hit with lawsuits alleging “frat boy culture” or “toxic bro
culture,” and a law firm specializing in these suits brags
of settlements ranging from $450,000 to $8 million.
Women can sue their bosses for running a workplace that
feels like a fraternity house, but men can’t sue when their workplace feels
like a Montessori kindergarten. Naturally employers err on the side of making
the office softer. So if women are thriving more in the modern workplace, is
that really because they are outcompeting men? Or is it because the rules have
been changed to favor them?
A lot can be inferred from the way that feminization
tends to increase over time. Once institutions reach a 50–50 split, they tend
to blow past gender parity and become more and more female. Since 2016, law
schools have gotten a little bit more female every year; in 2024, they were 56
percent female. Psychology, once a predominantly male field, is now
overwhelmingly female, with 75 percent of psychology doctorates going to women.
Institutions seem to have a tipping point, after which they become more and more
feminized.
That does not look like women outperforming men. It looks
like women driving men away by imposing feminine norms on previously male
institutions. What man wants to work in a field where his traits are not
welcome? What self-respecting male graduate student would pursue a career in
academia when his peers will ostracize him for stating his disagreements too
bluntly or espousing a controversial opinion?
In September, I gave a speech at the National
Conservatism conference along the lines of the essay above. I was apprehensive
about putting forward the Great Feminization thesis in such a public forum. It
is still controversial, even in conservative circles, to say that there are too
many women in a given field or that women in large numbers can transform
institutions beyond recognition in ways that make them cease to function well.
I made sure to express my argument in the most neutral way possible. To my
surprise, the response was overwhelming. Within a few weeks, the video
of the speech had gotten over 100,000 views on YouTube and become one of
the most viewed speeches in the history of the National Conservatism
conference.
It is good that people are receptive to the argument,
because our window to do something about the Great Feminization is closing.
There are leading indicators and lagging indicators of feminization, and we are
currently at the in-between stage when law schools are majority female but the
federal bench is still majority male. In a few decades, the gender shift will
have reached its natural conclusion. Many people think wokeness is over, slain
by the vibe shift, but if wokeness is the result of demographic feminization,
then it will never be over as long as the demographics remain unchanged.
As a woman myself, I am grateful for the opportunities I
have had to pursue a career in writing and editing. Thankfully, I don’t think
solving the feminization problem requires us to shut any doors in women’s
faces. We simply have to restore fair rules. Right now we have a nominally
meritocratic system in which it is illegal for women to lose. Let’s make hiring
meritocratic in substance and not just name, and we will see how it shakes out.
Make it legal to have a masculine office culture again. Remove the HR lady’s
veto power. I think people will be surprised to discover how much of our
current feminization is attributable to institutional changes like the advent
of HR, which were brought about by legal changes and which legal changes
can reverse.
Because, after all, I am not just a woman. I am also someone with a lot of disagreeable opinions, who will find it hard to flourish if society becomes more conflict-averse and consensus-driven. I am the mother of sons, who will never reach their full potential if they have to grow up in a feminized world. I am—we all are—dependent on institutions like the legal system, scientific research, and democratic politics that support the American way of life, and we will all suffer if they cease to perform the tasks they were designed to do.
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