By Armstrong Williams
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Over the past few years bullying has become a hot topic
of conversation. Perhaps I should amend that: bullying has become a hot topic
in the media as it has been pushed by progressives to force mainstream
acceptance of their agenda.
The bullying I am talking about is not the big kid
pushing around the little kid or the Steubenville, Ohio rape case. The acts of
bullying that are making headlines are about words and feelings. Many times it
is used as a catch-all for anyone that challenges the leftist ideas—suspending
kids for expressing their religious views or making a “gun” with their pointer
finger and thumb.
You will recognize that many similarities between the new
anti-bullying trend today the political correctness (PC) movement in the ‘90’s.
This is just the latest example of a repressive movement aiming to stifle any
and all dissent.
In 1949, George Orwell wrote the ground-breaking book
1984. In it he described the idea of Newspeak—a state created language intended
to restrict man’s ability to describe his own thoughts and feelings. One
particular aspect of Newspeak was the idea of Thoughtcrime—harboring unspoken
thoughts that could be deemed contentious or “anti-social.” Lacking the words
to express displeasure was not enough, you could be arrested for thinking
inexpressible notions.
In America circa 2013, your own intentions do not matter
if you express any idea that can be construed as “hate speech.” Intentions only
matter when you enact the leftist idea of what is good even if it destroys
people’s lives.
According to the American Bar Association, “hate speech”
is speech that offends, threatens, or insults groups, based on race, color,
religion, national origin, sexual orientation, disability, or other traits.
A noble gesture, but what happens when you call someone
of a different race a jerk or more colorful explicative? If you are a white
male, that is hate speech. If a black man says it to a black woman, that is
sexual discrimination or harassment, another form of hate speech.
When it comes to policing language, it is the offendee’s
subjective interpretation that matters, not the offender’s intent. In fact, the
offendee’s prior actions are not even a consideration—the person may have just
run over your pet, but your anger and mental anguish does not compare to the
supposed psychological damage the offendee suffers when you express outrage at
that person.
All we have to do is look at any criticism of President
Obama. Do not agree with his policies? Well you must be racist. But I am black
and disagree; fortunately I have liberal white folks there to tell me I am an
Uncle Tom.
These accusations are not meant to point out actual
racism, they are meant to discredit and silence opposition. The logical
fallacies run wild: hasty generalization, straw man, no true Scotsman, and
appeal to ignorance just for starters. Needless-to-say, such indictments are
not valid points of debate.
The desire to silence critics is due to the left’s own
narcissistic tendencies. A narcissist projects his or her own thoughts onto
others; they cannot imagine others think differently. The worst policies are
made when we think inductively: from a small sample they make conclusions at
large.
In such cases, a person examines their own prejudices and
weakness and assumes everyone else has them. “I have racist thoughts and must
struggle to contain them, so everyone must feel that way,” or “I have
homo-erotic thoughts everyone does.” Such thoughts result in rancor,
self-loathing, and knee-jerk reactionary bills that abridge freedom to repress
their own demons.
It also results in thinking that someone would never say
mean words to others unless there is a darker thought behind it. Better to
prevent anyone from saying something mean than risk hurt feeling. One’s own
thoughtcrimes becomes everyone’s. Public shaming of any and all though crimes
is coercion; it is bullying.
When you label dissent as bullying, you stifle
discussion. When you endorse the policing of thoughtcrime, you do not change
minds, only harden hearts. Consensus and understanding only comes through an
open dialogue. You cannot change a bigot’s mind by censuring his thoughts, you
change it by talking to him about his views and actions and getting him to
empathize with others.
But the charge of bullying not only has been used to
suppress objection, it has been used to condone bad behavior.
Saying women must be responsible and aware in order to
prevent getting into a bad situation is “mansplaining,” or “slut shaming,” or
contributing to “rape culture.” No it is saying that you do not walk down a
dark alley in a bad part of town drunk and alone.
Telling someone they are overweight and it is unhealthy,
pointing out how a proper diet and exercise actually improves their mental
disposition and looks is “fat shaming” and not accepting them for who they are.
There are even court cases where clients sue their trainers for mental anguish
because they tell them to stop eating junk food and keeping working out. Is
everyone taking crazy pills?
There is a difference between bullying; being rude;
calling someone on their bad behavior; and constructive criticism; but frankly,
I do not think that the left and the culture they have helped to create sees
the difference anymore.
People can declare that life should just be full of love
and acceptance, but to do so is to delude oneself. Life is not rainbows and
unicorns. It is a grind that takes perseverance and fortitude to come out
ahead.
Denouncing opposing ideas and thoughts as bullying
cheapens those that are truly bullied and oppressed. If we are ever to overcome
the rancor that permeates our modern society, we must fight against the attempt
to give into political correctness and cry “bully!” any time someone hurts our
feelings. Sometimes we should simply grow thicker skin, but we also need to
take a step back and examine our own behavior. Instead of hiding in an
echo-chamber of affirmation, we should engage those with different thoughts and
experiences to understand their point of view. If we step out of our own
projections, we might just find that the person we thought was a bully, is
actually a friend.
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