By Dennis Prager
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
In my last column, I proposed some explanations for why
many conservative parents have left-wing children.
In a nutshell, American parents who hold traditional
American values -- such as belief in small government as the basis of liberty,
in a God-based moral code, that American military strength is the greatest
contributor to world peace and stability, or in American exceptionalism, not to
mention in the man-woman definition of marriage or in the worth of a human
fetus -- are at war with almost every influence on their children's lives. This
includes, most importantly, the media and the schools.
Here, then are some suggestions for raising a child with
American, i.e., conservative, values.
First, parents who are not left-wing need to understand
that if they do not articulate their values on a regular basis, there is a good
chance that after one year, let alone four, at college, their child will adopt
left-wing views and values. Do not think for a moment that values are
automatically transmitted. One hundred years ago they may have been -- because
the outside world overwhelmingly reaffirmed parents' traditional values -- but
no longer.
You have to explain to your children -- repeatedly --
what America and you stand for. (That, if I may note, is why I wrote
"Still the Best Hope" and why I started PragerUniversity.com.)
Second, they need to know what they will be taught at
college -- and now in many high schools -- and how to respond. When they are
told from day one at college that America and its white citizens are inherently
racist, they need to know how to counter this libel with these truths: America
is the least racist society in the world; more black Africans have immigrated
here of their own volition than were came here forcibly to be slaves; and
"racist" is merely one of many epithets -- such as sexist,
intolerant, xenophobic, homophobic, Islamophobic, and bigoted -- that the left
uses instead of arguments.
Third, when possible, it is best that your child not go
to college immediately after high school. One reason colleges are able to
indoctrinate students is that students enter college young and unworldly. It is
very rare that adult students are convinced to abandon their values and become
left-wing. Why? Because they have lived life and are much less naive. For
example, someone with life experience is far more likely than a kid just out of
high school to understand that the best formula for avoiding poverty is to take
personal responsibility -- get a job, get married and then have children -- not
government help.
Teenagers who spend a year before going to college
working -- in a restaurant, for a moving company, at an office -- will mature
far more than they would after a year at college. And maturity is an
inoculation against leftism.
If your home is Jewish, Catholic, Protestant or Mormon,
another option for the year after high school is to have your child devote a
year to studying religion in some formal setting. The more your child knows,
lives and adheres to the principles of any of these religions, the less likely
he or she will convert to Leftism, which has been the most dynamic religion of
the last hundred years. For example, it is a fundamental belief of each of
these Judeo-Christian religions that the root of evil is within the evildoer.
But it is a fundamental belief of leftism that people murder, steal and rape
overwhelmingly because of outside influences such as poverty and racism. The
moment your child understands that people who commit evil are responsible-- not
poverty or racism -- they cannot be a leftist.
Fourth, don't be preoccupied with instilling high
self-esteem in your child. It is the left that believes that self-esteem is a
child's right, something that parents and society owe children. Conservatives
believe that everyone, including children, must earn self-esteem. Indeed, the
belief in earning -- rather than in being given -- is conservative.
Fifth, teach character. The left has essentially defined
a good person as one who holds progressive social positions -- on race, the
environment, taxes, health care, etc. That is why the left, including the
feminist left, could so adore Bill Clinton who regularly used his positions of
power to take advantage of women: He held progressive positions.
If your child recycles or walks five kilometers on behalf
of breast cancer, that is lovely. But if your child refuses to cheat on tests
or befriends an unpopular kid at school, that is character. And teaching that
definition of character is more often done in a conservative (usually a
religiously conservative) context.
It is not all that hard to produce a son or daughter able
to withstand left-wing indoctrination. You just have to understand that it
doesn't happen automatically.
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