By Paul Jacob
Sunday, July 28, 2013
What a great deal the people of San Diego have, with Bob
Filner as their mayor.
When the going gets tough, when charges of sexual
harassment sprout forth against a fellow so frequently that the county sheriff
sets up a “hotline” to manage the volume, when one’s own party, the county
Democratic Central Committee, votes 34 to six that you should immediately
resign, any ordinary public servant would succumb to the embarrassment and
shame by surrendering his or her office.
But not Mr. Filner. He’s no quitter.
No matter how humiliated he might be, no matter how much
his and the city’s name get dragged through the mud, Fightin’ Filner is willing
to suffer those slings with smiles in order to serve the people of sunny San
Diego.
Demented? Perhaps . . . but also dedicated.
He’s committed. Or should be.
Seven women have now come forward with specific and
horrendous accusations of Filner’s sexually abusive behavior. The mayor’s
response? “I begin today by apologizing to you,” he said in a YouTube video
weeks ago, after the first allegations broke. “I have diminished the office to
which you elected me.”
Filner continued, “I have reached into my heart and soul
and realized I must and will change my behavior.” Meanwhile, he remembered to
remind folks that he is “someone who has spent a lifetime fighting for equality
for all people.”
With just a few short time-outs from public
wonderfulness, apparently.
The mayor admitted he was “embarrassed to admit” that he
had “failed to fully respect the women who work for me and with me, and that at
times I have intimidated them.”
“If my behavior doesn’t change,” he explained, “I cannot
succeed in leading our city.”
What?! Unthinkable. How could San Diego survive without
Filner fiddling about city hall?
Courage.
Filner rises above scandals that would stymie most other
career politicians. Twenty years in the U.S. Congress, where his predilections
were probably par for the course, taught him the arrogance and narcissism
needed by today’s politicians. No sooner had Filner expertly delivered his
apology, than he was announcing that he will soon “be announcing fundamental
changes within the Mayor’s Office designed to promote a new spirit of
cooperation, respect and effectiveness.”
Turning scandal into “change” and a “new spirit” is no
simple spell; it takes a consummate professional politician.
Later, the magnanimous mayor told a reporter, “I very
much welcome the fact that some of these allegations will finally be addressed
by an appropriate investigative authority rather than by press conference and
innuendo.”
Agreed. Everyone is buoyed just by having this
conversation. Pinch me.
Still, this stoic public servant sought to put the ugly
accusations in context, noting that he has struggled lifelong as “a hugger, of
both men and women.” Equal opportunity, see? And it’s just like Filner to share
his struggles with those closest to him — within arm’s reach.
Furthermore, while Mayor Bob was apologizing to everyone
who might have felt offended by his offensive and downright bizarre and abusive
behavior, he was also asserting his innocence as a legal matter. “I do not
believe I am guilty of sexual harassment,” he offered, “and I believe a full
presentation of the facts will vindicate me.”
Sorry and vindicated. This is a fast-moving world.
Oops! Then four additional women came forward on the
local PBS television channel — one a dean at San Diego State University and
another a retired U.S. Navy rear admiral — to air their allegations of Filner’s
groping, verbal harassment, headlocks, etc.
Even a political pro like his majesty the mayor would be
hard pressed to maneuver around such a PR body blow, right? (Oh, ye of little
faith.)
“Beginning on August 5,” declared San Diego Mayor Robert
Filner at a news conference last Friday, “I will be entering a behavior
counseling clinic to undergo two weeks of intensive therapy.”
Not sure what his precise behavioral syndrome will be
called, but the man is clearly ill and needs all our compassion along with some
expensive and secluded medical attention. While still mayor, of course. Even
during his stay, he’ll be briefed on the city’s survival status morning and
night.
“The behavior I have engaged in over many years is
wrong,” Filner reiterated. “My failure to respect women and the intimidating
conduct I engaged in at times is inexcusable. It has undermined what I have
spent my entire professional life working on — fighting for equality and
justice for all people.”
Yes, it is inexcusable, but mustn’t we excuse it or risk
interrupting the mayor’s sublime stewardship of our nation’s eighth largest
city?
Get well soon, Mayor Filner!
Now, if there were only someone back East — in say, New
York City — who had this same selfless and sensational commitment to serving in
public office, someone so dedicated to “fighting for equality and justice for
all people” that no level of personal scandal or abuse of real people,
regardless of how outrageous, could stand in the way of progress.
For the people.
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