By John Podhoretz
Thursday, April 14, 2022
Will Smith had a split-second impulse. He was sitting a
few feet away from Chris Rock at a table directly in front of a single step-up
to the Oscar stage—a stair that seemed to have been designed specifically for
the purpose of providing Smith with easy access to the podium to receive the
award everyone expected he would get at the end of the show.
Then Rock made a crack about Smith’s wife. Smith was
clearly in an extreme emotional state, on the cusp of achieving one of his
life’s greatest ambitions. He was—as the shrinks now say—dysregulated. He
laughed at Rock’s jibe, then must have caught sight of his wife’s unamused
face. Smith instantly determined they had both been disrespected, and he was
impelled to act. The elapsed time from crack to slap was nine seconds—four
seconds to get to his feet and five seconds to get to Rock, pull his arm back,
and commit his physical assault.
There was literally no obstacle in Smith’s path. There
was no aisle he would have had to walk down, no conventional set of stairs on
the side of the proscenium he would have had to get to and climb up before
crossing the stage. Nothing was there that would have physically prevented him
from acting on impulse. Had there been, Smith would have been restrained by
circumstance.
In 1993, the Wall Street Journal published
a legendary editorial called “No Guardrails,” which attempted to diagnose
the disastrous long-term effects of the loosening of cultural and social
restraints in America in the late 1960s. Three decades after its publication,
the self-destruction of Will Smith was made possible by the literal removal of
actual guardrails whose presence would have made his disastrous act of
self-expression all but impossible.
Welcome to America, 2022, writ small.
We are living through an era in which split-second
impulses are so easily indulged that the ordinary prudence with which people
usually conduct their affairs can be bypassed entirely. Technological
innovations are in part to blame. Careers can be and are undone by a single
ill-considered tweet that might take 30 seconds to write and a decade to
recover from. A teenager alone in his room can instantaneously access the
alluring but dehumanizing pornography the consumption of which will damage his
ability to form genuine emotional and sexual attachments to actual people in
the long term.
Our culture now considers an act of self-expression or
self-fulfillment to be the noblest and highest of human endeavors—and to some
extent, the more extravagant, the more authentic. Reveal your greatest pain in
exquisite and no-holds-barred detail. Dilate upon your secret trauma. Lay out
your weaknesses and misbehaviors to show that we’re all human. Jada Pinkett
Smith, whose honor her husband was supposedly defending, had a show on YouTube
in which she discussed—with Smith!—an affair she’d had with her son’s friend.
People only do these things these days because they are
incentivized to do so, and because the guardrails that once would have stopped
them—censors, gatekeepers, and internalized shame—appear to be gone. But they
aren’t, really. They are reinstalled immediately after someone goes too far.
Will Smith has now been banned from the Oscars for a decade, just as a person
who puts up a repulsive tweet loses a job.
We collectively believe these offenders deserve these
harsh punishments because they should have known better. But should they have,
really? The message American culture has transmitted at every level since the
1960s is that guardrails themselves are a kind of emotional prison from which
we need to be liberated.
And we have been. But the liberation has proved
imprisoning. Guardrails exist to prevent bad behavior. They are the opposite of
a jail; they are the way you stay out of jail. When, in the past half-century,
has anyone been led to believe that the suppression of an impulse is healthier
and safer than acting upon it? We have been encouraged to be slaves to our
impulses rather than masters of them, and we are coming undone because of it.
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